Books Are Your Best Mentors
I really enjoy giving recommendations to those who are operating in the Software Engineering world to take inspiration from non tech areas as well.
In the bellow lists, you will find books that I have read and that I consider to be of great value from more than just the tech world.
For those who love to code
Language Agnostic
Code Complete by Steve McConnell
Refactoring: Improving the Design of Existing Code by Martin Fowler
Head First Design Patterns by Eric Freeman, Elisabeth Robson, Bert Bates, Kathy Sierra
Extreme Programming Explained: Embrace Change by Kent Beck, Cynthia Andres
Software Estimation: Demystifying the Black Art by Steve McConnell
Test-Driven Development: By Example by Kent Beck
Introduction to Algorithms by Thomas H. Cormen, Charles E. Leiserson, Ronald L. Rivest, Clifford Stein
The Pragmatic Programmer: Your Journey to Mastery by David Thomas, Andrew Hunt
Software Architecture for Developers: Volume 1 - Technical leadership and the balance with agility by Simon Brown
Refactoring Databases: Evolutionary Database Design by Scott W. Ambler, Pramodkumar J. Sadalage
Design and Build Great Web APIs by Mike Amundsen
Seven Concurrency Models in Seven Weeks: When Threads Unravel by Paul Butcher
Site Reliability Engineering: How Google Runs Production Systems by Betsy Beyer, Chris Jones, Jennifer Petoff, Niall Richard Murphy
Soft Skills: The Software Developer’s Life Manual by John Sonmez
Design Patterns: Elements of Reusable Object-Oriented Software by Erich Gamma, Richard Helm, Ralph Johnson, John Vlissides
The Mythical Man-Month: Essays on Software Engineering by Frederick P. Brooks Jr.
Clean Code: A Handbook of Agile Software Craftsmanship by Robert C. Martin
Software Craftsman, The: Professionalism, Pragmatism, Pride by Sandro Mancuso
Cracking the Coding Interview: 150 Programming Questions and Solutions by Gayle Laakmann McDowell
97 Things Every Programmer Should Know: Collective Wisdom from the Experts by Kevlin Henney
With a passion for .net (an older version list)
Pro C# 5.0 and the .NET 4.5 Framework by Andrew Troelsen
Professional ASP.NET MVC 4 by Jon Galloway, Phil Haack, Brad Wilson, K. Scott Allen
Pro ASP.NET Web API Security: Securing ASP.NET Web API by Badrinarayanan Lakshmiraghavan
The Art of Unit Testing: With Examples in .NET by Roy Osherove
RESTful Web Services Cookbook: Solutions for Improving Scalability and Simplicity by Subbu Allamaraju
With a passion for Elixir/Erlang
Designing for Scalability with Erlang/OTP: Implement Robust, Fault-Tolerant Systems by Francesco Cesarini, Steve Vinoski
Programming Elixir: Functional, Concurrent, Pragmatic, Fun by Dave Thomas
Designing Elixir Systems with OTP by James Edward Gray II
Adopting Elixir: From Concept to Production by Ben Marx, José Valim, Bruce Tate
Concurrent Data Processing in Elixir by Svilen Gospodinov
With a passion for Python
Fluent Python: Clear, Concise, and Effective Programming by Luciano Ramalho
Mastering Python High Performance by Fernando Doglio
For the Architects
Domain-Driven Design: Tackling Complexity in the Heart of Software by Eric Evans
Software Architecture in Practice by Len Bass, Paul Clements, Rick Kazman
The Cancer Code: A Revolutionary New Understanding of a Medical Mystery by Jason Fung
Microservices in Action by Morgan Bruce, Paulo A. Pereira
Monolith to Microservices: Evolutionary Patterns to Transform Your Monolith by Sam Newman
Software Architecture: The Hard Parts: Modern Trade-Off Analyses for Distributed Architectures by Neal Ford, Mark Richards
Team Topologies: Organizing Business and Technology Teams for Fast Flow by Matthew Skelton, Manuel Pais
Designing Data-Intensive Applications by Martin Kleppmann
Patterns of Enterprise Application Architecture by Martin Fowler
Just Enough Software Architecture: A Risk-Driven Approach by George Fairbanks
Building Microservices: Designing Fine-Grained Systems by Sam Newman
The Systems Bible: The Beginner’s Guide to Systems Large and Small by John Gall
Building Evolutionary Architectures: Support Constant Change by Neal Ford, Rebecca Parsons, Patrick Kua
The TOGAF® Standard, 10th Edition — Introduction and Core Concepts by The Open Group
97 Things Every Software Architect Should Know: Collective Wisdom from the Experts by Richard Monson-Haefel, Kevlin Henney
Team Topologies: Organizing Business and Technology Teams for Fast Flow by Matthew Skelton, Manuel Pais
For Leaders
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change by Stephen R. Covey
The Five Dysfunctions of a Team: A Leadership Fable” by Patrick Lencioni
Surely You’re Joking, Mr. Feynman!: Adventures of a Curious Character by Richard Feynman
Nice Girls Don’t Get the Corner Office: 101 Unconscious Mistakes Women Make That Sabotage Their Careers by Lois P. Frankel
Escaping the Build Trap: How Effective Product Management Creates Real Value by Melissa Perri
Radical Candor: Be a Kickass Boss Without Losing Your Humanity by Kim Scott
Staff Engineer: Leadership Beyond the Management Track by Will Larson
When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress by Gabor Maté
The Art of Action: How Leaders Close the Gaps between Plans, Actions and Results by Stephen Bungay
Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead by Sheryl Sandberg
Turn the Ship Around!: A True Story of Turning Followers into Leaders by L. David Marquet
Becoming a Technical Leader: An Organic Problem-Solving Approach by Gerald M. Weinberg
The Culture Map: Breaking Through the Invisible Boundaries of Global Business by Erin Meyer
What’s Our Problem?: A Self-Help Book for Societies by Tim Urban
Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman
Race for the South Pole: The Expedition Diaries of Scott and Amundsen by Roland Huntford
Talking to Strangers: What We Should Know about the People We Don’t Know by Malcolm Gladwell
Turn the Ship Around!: A True Story of Turning Followers into Leaders by L. David Marquet
Corruptible: Who Gets Power and How It Changes Us by Brian Klaas